Valentine's Day is great isn't it?  I'm really looking forward to Valentine's day as I plan some special surprises for my wife.

But I don't think I started liking Valentine's Day until I met Jen.  Prior to that, Valentine's Day was another reminder that I was single.  Valentine's Day can be difficult for singles.  Maybe it's a reminder of a relationship that didn't work out or a frustration for not being able to find "the one."  Trust me, I remember how difficult it can be when it feels like everyone has found that special person but you.

I want to give a few words of encouragement to singles.  First, God has a plan for you.  Don't let satan convince you that there's something wrong with you because you're single.  Finding the right person can be very difficult--especially when you're trying to find someone who's truly a Christian.  Don't be frustrated, no one said it was easy.  Be proactive.  Write your future spouse a love letter and store it away until you're married.  Teach yourself how to cook a special meal that you can someday make for your future spouse (I taught myself how to make chicken french on Valentine's Day two years before I met Jen).  And lastly, remember that Jesus Christ is the true love of our lives and he comes before family and marriage.  Make him the desire of your heart!